Lugosi or Spider have this “domination thing” with Ruby about 3 or 4 times a week. In multi-cat households, this happens to establish a pecking order, and/or if a cat feels insecure in his standing in said pecking order The tom grabs the queen by the neck and his back legs start trampling. It all looks quite rude and the first time I saw Lugosi do this to Ruby, I thought he was actually going to shag her! Of course, they´ve all been “done”, so it´s nothing like that really!
Below is a video of how things always end up between Lugosi and Ruby… first the bit with the fierce neckgrip (not in the video), followed by lovey-dovey licking, and purring on Ruby´s part (in the video). ENJOY!